I don't know the physics of friction well enough to debate it one way or the other, so I'll take your word on that aspect of this. I do know that the balance bar setups are not designed to affect tire wear, they are designed to let you dial in as much brake pressure as a wheel can take given a vehicle's weight distribution, weight transfer during braking, and probably other factors. The "To win ..." books written by Carrol Smith, I've been told, have some good discussions on this.
I'd agree that weight distribution on a bicycle is not a huge deal, but when you are at the absolute limit of braking traction, as I found myself recently when a car unexpectedly panic stopped in front of me, every little bit counts!
I don't know the minutia of the physics of this either, but my experience with road bikes, and about 40,000 miles of superbikes on the street, is that all else being equal, sitting up and getting your upper body into the wind will slow you down better than getting low and bracing yourself against an endo. If you watch a Grand Prix motorcycle race on TV, the racers sit up, not tuck behind the windscreen, when they approach the corners. I imagine the same holds true if you watch the descents in the Tour, but I'm not certain. Anyway, interesting discussion, as always.