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Bridesmaid Dress Ride

Introducing the Bridesmaid Dress Ride!

October 15

6pm-end

Meet at 3410 Penn Ave


Ladies always complain about bridesmaid dresses because they are almost always expensive but single-use only dresses that languish in the closet after a wedding.


If we all put on our ridiculous dresses together and ride our bicycles around the city in a fancy fashion we will:


01. Have fun


02. Meet new people


03. Wear that dress one more time.


04. Reduce the financial waste of the dress. If you buy a $200 dress and wear it once that is $200 per wear. If you wear it to the bridesmaid ride and you’ve cut in half the money you wasted, now it’s $100 per wear. If the Bridesmaid ride is popular, you can wear it again and again and even trade with friends for better outfits.


05. Prove that it is possible to ride fancy clothes on a bike.


06. Look fabulous.


This is not a ladies-exclusive ride. Dudes will be warmly welcomed, particularly those that embrace the sprit of the ride and wear a dress!


Clothing swaps will be held in the weeks before the ride to encourage the sharing and exchange of dresses.


Starting time / location subject to change. I'm going to try to find a lovely place for an after party.


Rain date: October 22


Rain date's rain date: October 29


(There's a facebook page with all this same info but since plenty of folks eschew facebook, here it is again!)


(edited to add date..)


lolly
2010-08-11 20:36:18

Help! I see a rain date and a rain date's rain date, but not a date date. Is it buried under layers of chiffon?


swalfoort
2010-08-11 20:43:21

right! it's October 15 · 6:00pm - 11:00pm


lolly
2010-08-11 20:45:05

Anyone have something in a size 18 with A cup size?


I look best in blue.


mick
2010-08-11 20:45:26

that size is not in my closet but those dresses are practically free at thrift stores around the city!


lolly
2010-08-11 20:50:10

Sweet, that fill the bonus flock of the month.


If Nick rolls with a dress, I'll be there as well.


robjdlc
2010-08-11 21:53:16

I volunteer to lend Nick this:




bikefind
2010-08-11 22:09:59

This is totally a bonus flock of the month activity. I'll be there. I'll be rocking a tuxedo. I need to find a tophat that fits over my helmet.


dwillen
2010-08-11 22:23:46

Hmmm...while I certainly yearn to see you in taffeta, Mick, I'm thinking you'd be a natural in the role of wedding singer.


reddan
2010-08-12 00:05:20

If you ladies / dudes know anyone who might be interested in this bike ride, please let them know. It will be very low key, leisurely, and perfect for beginners.


http://www.facebook.com/#!/event.php?eid=131233906920886&ref=mf


Maybe I can scrounge up some prizes for crowd-appointed best-dressed


lolly
2010-08-12 17:47:32

if nothing else "prizes" can equal items spraypainted gold.


caitlin
2010-08-12 18:14:24

Heck, I'll wear a long dress and go on a ride! I'm about 5'8" and 150. If you think you have something that might work, PM me.


Stefb on the tandem on her wedding day ... (introductions thread) ... that photo is priceless.


stuinmccandless
2010-08-13 01:21:27

we murdered that dress, it was way too long and kept getting caught in the chain. fortunately that wasnt the actual wedding dress. that is nice and safe until we take it on a wreck the dress mtb ride next spring after the baby arrives (stef is understandably nervous about going on any sort of fast or technical mtb ride until then).


cburch
2010-08-13 02:15:56

i have a bridesmaid dress i can wear to this ride. i am interested. can i wear the yellow shoes i wore to the wedding also?


stu - there are also pics where i am making the "i am going to strangle you" gesture, and colin was unaware cause he just had to ride in the front.


stefb
2010-08-13 03:37:48

I was aware. And you were way too scared to be in the front. You almost tipped us over from the stoker seat several times as it was.


cburch
2010-08-13 03:56:33

actually this ride doesn't allow yellow shoes, sorry!


lolly
2010-08-13 14:42:50

What's the dress without the shoes! I say yellow or other color coordinated shoes are part of the fun!


swalfoort
2010-08-13 15:42:05

yeah that wasn't funny on the internet even though it seemed funny in person.


everything's allowed, particularly fancy shoes


lolly
2010-08-13 16:06:41



those are the shoes. not so much fancy as YELLLLLLLOW


cburch
2010-08-13 16:11:49

That's a Pgh wedding raht thurr.


edmonds59
2010-08-13 16:21:45

I'm looking for someone to help me out with a flyer for this ride. Any designers with time on their hands?


lolly
2010-08-17 20:32:52

That's a Pgh wedding raht thurr.


Not if it didn't have a 50/50.


noah-mustion
2010-08-17 23:39:56

Dont for get the reception at the local moose with the chicken dance


dbacklover
2010-08-18 02:02:56

man, chicken dance music at a Flock ride would totally rock.


edmonds59
2010-08-18 02:21:37

If the Moose is booked, try the fire hall. And order up some riggies and piggies.


atleastmykidsloveme
2010-08-18 02:22:30

It seemed like in my family that if the moose was booked you rescheduled the church. Priorities


dbacklover
2010-08-18 02:23:52

Well played, sir.


atleastmykidsloveme
2010-08-18 02:25:16

Dress: check. Shoes: mmmm, still looking, shouldn't be a problem. Bike: Umm, that is gonna be a problem. I have four ridable MEN'S road bikes. Not compatible with an ankle-length dress.


Anyone out there with a ladies' bike I can borrow for a couple of days? Preferably in pink or red? (Hey, the bike's gotta match the dress, too, right?)


stuinmccandless
2010-08-28 23:43:20

We need more dudes doing this ride.


stefb
2010-08-29 19:28:23

I'm definitely looking forward to this! I'll be rocking te tuxedo and tophat. And if the unicycle skills have improved enough by then...


gordonkirkwood
2010-09-16 14:10:03

Maybe I'll pull a suit out and really freak people out on the tall bike. (I will not be seen in a dress)


ndromb
2010-09-16 21:55:16

Anyone willing to rock THE wedding dress. I don't want to be the only one in white(ish)


bikelove2010
2010-09-16 23:41:47

i just found out that i won't be in town. i don't think my bridesmaid dress is gonna fit at that point anyway.


stefb
2010-09-17 01:25:11

Apologies! I still need to finish putting together the poster/flier for this!


What is the final-ish wording/text for this? Lolly? Anyone?


bikeygirl
2010-09-17 14:40:50

@Stu - I've got a "unisex" hardtail mountain bike that would work for you, maybe -- colors are orange and white. We may want to swap the knobbies for something slicker for this purpose. The Miyata is also available. Almost vintage, step through design, beautiful raspberry color. All it needs is for me to put the new tire on the rear wheel.


I'll probably either use the one you decide not to use, or go with a shorter dress design and use a mail/mixte road bike.


swalfoort
2010-09-17 17:16:10

Alright, you guys got me.


Looks like I'll be in town that weekend.


I'm 6foot3, 160lb, 32" waist. Not sure about my chest and hip measurements. Can I find a dress in 2 weeks?


joeframbach
2010-10-04 21:28:44

Is there a route planned yet? I'm not sure I'm going to make it before the start time after the 40 min ride (thats what google maps says).


Also, plans for an after party yet?


bikelove2010
2010-10-05 00:19:29

Joe -- you can definitely find a dress in two weeks. Every thrift store in the world is lousy with bridesmaid dresses for cheap.


Bikelove2010-- I'm doing route tests on Thursday at lunch. Maybe Friday too if you'd like to go on either.


There's not going to be a specific after party. There are a lot of events in Lawrenceville that night so we'll stop the ride in the middle and fan out for fun. Mary Mack is dj'ing at Wildcard for an art opening so I'd like to end there and then anyone who is interested can make their way to one of the various watering holes. I'm going to see if I can get some drink specials somewhere.


hellololly
2010-10-05 14:31:22

I was kinda hoping for at least a brief get-together afterward, even if the ride has to be a bit shorter. The ladies might be dressed to paint the town, but those of us in, um, non-standard attire might have a bit of a time trying to get into one of Larryville's watering holes right off.


Can we just loop around town for a bit, come back to BPgh for a little best-dressed ceremony, and then go whooping it up somewhere? That'd also give some of us dressed-up folk a chance to "slip into something a little more comfortable".


stuinmccandless
2010-10-05 15:46:05

Stu, I can't believe you'd like to slip into something more comfortable than a bridesmaid dress!


I'll see what I can do...


hellololly
2010-10-05 19:05:25

I'm going from a "no" to a "very likely"


Although, as the photographer, I might wear something a bit more conservative than I had originally intended, so I don't kill myself.


robjdlc
2010-10-05 21:34:05

Here's the flyer (sorry it's so big, my tech skills are limited)


And the riveting blog post with more information.


If anyone would like to volunteer to help lead / sweep this ride, determine the best route, or help promote, please send me an email: lolly@bike-pgh.org


hellololly
2010-10-05 22:04:40

it's Trisha! that would be fun if she would join us on the ride :)


tabby
2010-10-06 04:10:07

Love love love this!!!


kathi
2010-10-07 16:44:02

You should come!


hellololly
2010-10-07 16:55:06

if only i hadn't sold my completely heinous bridesmaid dress to the avalon..


emilywools
2010-10-07 16:59:38

Maybe you'll see someone else wearing it on the ride. I've heard people are shopping at Avalon for dresses.


You don't have to wear your own dress for this event. There are so many sadly languishing in thrift stores that would be perfect for this ride. Then you can swap with friends for the next Bridesmaid ride in the spring.


hellololly
2010-10-07 17:02:56

I'd wear my wedding dress, but it's not white, and if temperatures don't improve, I'd be seriously underdressed.


I'm a definite yes, regardless of what I find to wear.


ejwme
2010-10-07 18:32:58

Tip of the Day: Try using safety pins, binder clips or rubber bands to secure your dress at the ends to eliminate flowing dresses from getting stuck in the wheel.


hellololly
2010-10-11 15:01:18

nevermind.


joeframbach
2010-10-11 15:57:57

@Joe, I'm sorry about the switch to the other facebook invite, but I was asked to move it to the Bike Pittsburgh event from my personal account so we could invite more people.


Annoying? maybe. Life-changing? no. Still the same event? yes.


hellololly
2010-10-11 16:16:24

I tried to post a working link to the new invite. Your link above isn't working and mine failed as well.


joeframbach
2010-10-11 17:37:10

Link fixed!


hellololly
2010-10-11 17:55:28

I found this picture which I really like.


hellololly
2010-10-11 18:18:34

Lolly - I love that picture :D


I tried to convince my family to let me bike to my wedding, in dress or to change there, I didn't care which. They threatened to chain my bike up, and my sister's family drove me. Day of - turned out to be a very good thing, I was not in a condition to walk in a straight line let alone bike ~17 miles along unfamiliar state roads to an exurban park. My future husband ended up walking me down the "aisle" himself so we both made sure we both made it ok.


ejwme
2010-10-11 19:22:53

Would anyone be interested in helping lead this ride? I'm looking for about two people in front and two in back and I'm going to be pretty busy during this time to handle that part.


Fancy new bike Pittsburgh water bottle for the volunteers.


hellololly
2010-10-12 15:23:18

I'll take the back, but you can keep the water bottle. I'm sure it's cool, but I just don't need one.


ejwme
2010-10-12 17:11:22

I'll be there with camera, riding front and back to get some good photos.


robjdlc
2010-10-12 22:38:15

I'll be there with camera, riding front and back to get some good photos.


Best part is, you don't have to dress up; you'll be the wedding photographer!


noah-mustion
2010-10-12 22:48:34

I went to the Century Three Salvation Army last night and snagged a nice light blue number.


joeframbach
2010-10-13 13:30:50

Got the dress, got the bike, figured out transportation. All systems go!


OK, all y'uns uncommitted dudes, you will -not- be alone!


I will, however, need some help with the zipper in the back. Ladies, I don't know HOW you do this! 8-O


stuinmccandless
2010-10-13 14:45:28

YES! If only I had a wedding DJ... Anyone? Anyone? Bueller?


hellololly
2010-10-13 14:54:25

Stu - tie a string to the zipper pull, then tuck it down inside when the zipper is up. Just like a formal wetsuit. That's how I know that. Honest.


edmonds59
2010-10-13 15:15:55

Yoga helps with doing weird arm things behind your back.


This is going to be so oooo fun! I just found out my two little sisters are coming, too! YAY!


hellololly
2010-10-13 15:22:23

I was just offered a cotton candy pink number (I'm pretty sure I won't fit into my last remaining actual bridesmaid dress - 17 years is a difference). I think this merits trying to find a hat to set off the outfit. I'm a big helmet advocate, but a giant plastic daisy covered sunhat... we'll see.


ejwme
2010-10-13 17:15:25

I HOPE the weather holds because I am so excited to see everyone's get-ups!


Route forthcoming!


hellololly
2010-10-13 18:19:30

I thought about being in the wedding band but I don't know how to convey that short of lugging along an instrument


noah-mustion
2010-10-13 22:10:10

Noah - Wedding DJ. Just blare chicken dance and polka music louder than anybody wants to hear it.


ejwme
2010-10-14 02:11:07

Hmm. HMM... and the Electric Slide


noah-mustion
2010-10-14 02:21:03

Dont forget the hokey pokey, after all it is was it is all about


dbacklover
2010-10-14 02:37:07

@Noah - I could bring a pennywhistle you could "play" along the way. It's the most portable "real" instrument I know...... (kazoos don't count for weddings). In fact I have pennywhistles in several sizes/colors/keys. I also have a battery powered keyboard that might be small enough to bungie to handlebars, or a front basket that might also work.


swalfoort
2010-10-15 14:01:25

Don't worry about it. Flu vaccine made me sick, I have to miss the ride. Thanks though


noah-mustion
2010-10-15 14:13:01

If nick is still riding we might have a DJ. What do we consider good wedding music these days? I'll try to put together a playlist in case he or someone else has speakers.


robjdlc
2010-10-15 14:46:45

anything from the Wedding Singer seems appropriate, but that could be me showing my age.


I can't make it. Germs suck.


ejwme
2010-10-15 19:09:47

I have two unusual versions of the chicken dance on 45s. Kinda late to rip them for this ride, though; wish I'd've thought of it a month ago.


stuinmccandless
2010-10-15 19:36:07

I'll checking out the wedding singer, I'll toss in some chicken dance and some electric slide. Anyone else?


robjdlc
2010-10-15 20:15:40

The Macarena?


White Wedding...Billy Idol and/or the Abney Park cover.


reddan
2010-10-15 20:17:11

Oh, god, there's this new(ish) one, the Cha-cha slide. Trying to be the next "Electric Slide". The horror, THE HORROR!.


edmonds59
2010-10-15 20:28:52

Why do people play horrible ditties at weddings? I hate all those jams. I just have an extra bridesmaid dress and want to ride bikes with people.


hellololly
2010-10-15 20:32:46

Half of the wedding singer soundtrack is the stuff we played at the first flock anyway, haha.


robjdlc
2010-10-15 20:40:18

I like the song that is covered in old school (maybe)?


hellololly
2010-10-15 20:42:34

Louie Louie by black flag?


robjdlc
2010-10-15 20:54:01

damn, i have the black flag louie louie on 45 - i haven't heard it in forever but it rules. i've also got a tape of my high school band covering it which contains the most amazing burst of feedback i've ever produced on stage. sucks to peak at 17.


salty
2010-10-15 21:04:06

Got total eclipse! Anything else?


Heres hoping after all this someone has speakers.


robjdlc
2010-10-15 21:12:41

i hope everyone is having fun! i am sick and could not attend. someone post pics after the ride please!


stefb
2010-10-15 23:44:00

Went well, loads of people showed up, only a couple of hitches at stop lights. I'll have oodles of pictures up later.


robjdlc
2010-10-16 00:02:24

Loved the Ride. Loved the People, This was my first big ride with you guys. (went to the Don Parker Ride) It was a blast. from getting to meet all of you to seeing the faces of all the people in the cars and on the sidewalks.


After the Ride I went to the subway on penn for some foody goodness. the guy making my sandwich saw my helmet and asked if I was on the 'Dress Ride' He said he heard about it on DVE.


well well well


dbacklover
2010-10-16 01:59:13

I was expecting maybe three guys in dresses. How many were there, six? seven? Wow!!!1! All y'uns ladies looked positively smashing in your finery. Truly cool that the family with the little girl showed up, too.


This was the first ride I can recall starting and ending at Bike-Pgh's new digs. That worked out really well. Thank you for the use of the, um, "changing room". There's simply no way I could have participated without preparing on-site.


During the ride, I stopped to talk with some incredulous pedestrians, much as we did on the first Flock ride back in May. Just as we did then, I explained what we were about, talking up Bike-Pgh, bike advocacy and bicycling in general.


Afterward, I dashed to 9th St and caught a 12A right away, so was home before 9pm.


Kudos to Lolly and everyone else who made this thing happen!


stuinmccandless
2010-10-16 10:56:15

dbacklover


that was you on the fabled orange bike? i should have known


hit up the flock of cycles party ride next friday!


noah-mustion
2010-10-16 12:25:31

Holy cow, I wonder what they said about it on WDVE?!? And how they heard about it?

Whatever it was, somebody should find out and use that channel in the future.


edmonds59
2010-10-16 12:51:54

Noah


That was me, I thought I recognized your bike from the tag-o-rama photos but wasnt sure. I will be trying to get to more rides now that I know how much fun they are.


This one was kind of an experiment for me. after the ride I rode downtown and caught a bus home. (I dont fancy riding ARB on a good day let alone on a friday night) so know that I know I can get there, and get home it will open up many more chances for me to ride with everyone.


dbacklover
2010-10-16 13:15:22

It seems like in the aftermath of every one of these rides, and the FOC rides, there is a post like Terry's. You guys are doing more to expand people's horizons of where and when they can ride. Which means they'll ride more, farther and later.


I just wanted to say what's probably on a lot of people's minds: well done, keep it up!


atleastmykidsloveme
2010-10-16 14:46:04

That was super fun: good group of people, human-powered PA system to start the ride, rice-throwing and prizes at the end. I took a rather inelegant spill @ the convention center, but my knee seems to be fine after spending part of the night w/ a bag of frozen peas.


I hope the Amish Bride enjoyed his/her rumspringa ;-). There was quite a range of fashion on display.


pseudacris
2010-10-16 15:07:20

Photos are up!



Linky


robjdlc
2010-10-16 15:42:09

This was great! Super posi vibes and nice weather.


rachel_ding
2010-10-16 15:49:50

I love the guy with energy dome (DEVO) helmet - I see him around from time to time and always admire


noah-mustion
2010-10-16 16:17:10

i love the energy dome too!


rachel_ding
2010-10-16 16:31:19

Thanks so much to everyone who came out, who told people about it beforehand, who talked to pedestrians and drivers during the ride, to everyone who dressed up, and everyone who had fun. Thanks also to Rob and Ryan for photo and video and general enthusiasm.


I'd definitely like to do this again in the spring when we can comfortably ride in dresses, during the day to show them off, and coordinate front, back, and middle sound systems so no one is ever without great jams on the ride.


You guys and girls are fabulous! We'll have some good videos of it eventually to accompany Rob's photos. Thanks again!


hellololly
2010-10-17 19:49:45

Those pictures are so great! This is one of my favorites:



Great dress, Stu!


hellololly
2010-10-19 15:03:11

That pic of Stu is a caption contest waiting to happen...


atleastmykidsloveme
2010-10-19 15:15:19

Especially given, as you will notice, that it is a maternity dress.


stuinmccandless
2010-10-19 16:04:46

that it is a maternity dress.


hey now this was the bridesmaid ride, not the Maury "Baby Daddy Ride"


dbacklover
2010-10-19 16:07:03

It was so elegant, I missed the different function.


hellololly
2010-10-19 17:05:13

Momentum did a little write up about the ride which you can see here. Nice pictures, Rob!


hellololly
2010-11-01 14:20:09

That's very cool.


edmonds59
2010-11-01 16:29:40

Next ride in the spring?


June. June. JUNE!


Might as well make it as hokey as possible.


mick
2010-11-01 17:00:15

Mmmm, June might not be the best month. Too many weddings to go to. I'd go for earlier, like late April.


If we do it in the evening again, I don't think I'd want it to be any cooler than about 50 to 55 at the end of the ride.


Ladies, you all have a lot more experience in this department. Your word rules!


stuinmccandless
2010-11-01 17:06:07

dback - any time you want company riding down ARB (or pretty much anywhere), I'm in (especially coming home). I was sick for this ride (dratted immune system failure :P) but I usually bike to rides from our area, bike the ride, then bike home. I'm up for sharing any portion of that with you and your Big Orange Bike :D Oh - and maybe you can help me get home by bus on one of the next ones, I'm still sketch on that and tend to default to biking 'cause I know I won't end up in Sewickley by accident. All the wrong busses go to Sewickley, unless that's where you're headed in which case they go to Century III mall.


ejwme
2010-11-01 17:09:25

@ Stu I'd go for earlier, like late April.


If we do it in the evening again, I don't think I'd want it to be any cooler than about 50 to 55 at the end of the ride.


Looks like you would have to chose one or the other on that.


http://www.weather.com/outlook/health/allergies/wxclimatology/monthly/graph/15213


There are plenty of late April/early May evenings that don't go below 50, but you can't really plan on that.


June is the month for Bridesmaids! Flocking outside Holiday Inns with the ruffles and satin.


mick
2010-11-01 18:04:16

I'd like to do it during the day so that it's warmer and we can see the road and each other. May or June seems nice to me.


Get your dresses now-ish!


hellololly
2010-11-01 18:10:39

Nice pics!! I think that Stu and Joe took the prize on the male's department! And on women's, I think Molly gets props for the blond wig! :)


Next time I'll try to make it for sure :)


bikeygirl
2010-11-01 19:30:29

Something to improve for the next ride: Practice before we head out. Make sure everything is stable where it needs to be. There was a slightly longer ride planned, but had to be cut short. I wasn't expecting it to go at less than walking pace.


joeframbach
2010-11-01 21:37:46

yeah, i would have avoided ft. duquesne blvd altogether. awful pavement conditions, tricky traffic patterns and it happened to be somewhat heavy traffic that night which was a lil hairy


noah-mustion
2010-11-01 21:40:05

That's also where we had our ride's only mishap. I didn't see who (I think there's a mention above somewhere), or how (it occurred behind me), but the traffic, darkness, and the little bit of drizzle that hit at about that same time all must have contributed. I think I'd rather deal with 10 cars than one tractor-trailer, dress or not.


My dress was ankle-length and flared at the bottom, and the only practice I got in riding in it was a pair of 50-foot test rides in front of the building. I am really happy the tie-up-the-right-side-with-rubber-bands idea worked as well as it did. I had zero tangles with either chain or spokes. Kudos again to Lolly for saving the day!


stuinmccandless
2010-11-03 16:39:38