These are nice wheels, but I’d go for something lighter for any real road riding, especially for a presumably smaller and lighter female rider. Deep V rims are strong as hell, no doubt, but they’re also pretty heavy. I run a number of wheelsets with Deep V rims. Just sayin’.
And you are correct re: need for strong wheels. If I wanted to stick to nothing but smooth tarmac, I’d go a lot lighter; but any bike I ride has to be vaguely capable of surviving real-world conditions.